Saturday, September 16, 2006

What if?

What if my friends knew I was gay? What would they say if they knew I identified as Bisexual? I'd probably end up with no friends. Or associates should I say, because if they were my friends it wouldn't matter. It scares the living day out of me to even imagine telling my associates that I like girls. Or that I prefer girl on girl sex as opposed to male and female sex. Ewww....I'm sure they would mutter.

Some would even say it out loud.

But I am bisexual. I may even lean more on the lesbian side than straight. And oh the headaches and swelling this causes. Because years prior I was a straight black female living the good life.

9 Comments:

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5:09 AM  
Blogger Lisa said...

im going through the same thing.

only im married. to a man. and we have a child together. i don't know what to do.

i've always had a strong attraction to women, but right now, i feel stuck.

my husband doesn't know.

just come out. if they're really your friends, they'll stick around.

mine didn't.

ps im a black female that was living the good life too

8:53 PM  
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9:14 PM  
Blogger jwood said...

I know how it is to make that realization and the fist few months or even years. I'm married to a man how knows and completly understands and accepts me for me.

As Lisa said, come out, your true friends will stick with you!

~Jo
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www.savinoxide.wordpress.com

11:50 AM  
Blogger wildmess said...

hey girl, we are in the same shoes. i am in love with a girl i will never have. stay strong. you'll get thru this period. take care.

10:48 AM  
Blogger unavower said...

i'm in a similar situation
i don't feel sure enough to just come out though.
i don't have much advice but i wanted to leave a comment

6:48 AM  
Blogger Keli said...

It's been awhile since you posted.I hope life is not as confusing for you.Just remember that there is more to life than bisexuality.You're not alone honey.So hang in there.I have friends to,that I do not share my sexuality feelings with.You don't have to share with everyone you're a bisexual.Just share that with those you can trust.There will be more friends you'll meet,and your secret don't have to be kept.

8:53 AM  
Blogger christi said...

ya know the the way i deal with it is just teell them if they don't like you for who you are they were never real friends in the first place so just be who you wanna be and tell your friends....

12:42 PM  
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